Why Resolve It?

Sounds like a funny question, but we want the answer.  Sometimes (okay lots of times) what people are really seeking is validation of their perception.  When the focus of our energy is to accomplish having our perception validated;  we tend to find someone trying to resolve the actual problem to be quite a nuisance.

People in general need an individual amount of proof that they are legit in their discrepancy before they are ready to settle the discrepancy.  And that’s okay.  I can offer that, and it can be healthy for all parties involved.

Limiting negative ripple effect is the real challenge.

Agencies designed to handle the conflicts we find ourselves in can sometimes start to appear as though they advocate the conflict instead of helping resolve it.  That of course is not the intention, but that’s the result.  As I stated in previous blogs; some decisions do require judicial assistance to find equitable balance.  The majority of our disputes however, Do Not.

So it comes down to you.  Do you want to make sure everyone knows how you were done wrong? That is certainly available.  You can even drag it out for as long as you want, and you will never run out of professionals who accept payment in exchange for explaining to an audience just exactly what your rights are.  Continued conflict is available for purchase until you’re ready to move on.

When you are ready to move on, I’ll be here.


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